Relationship Advice: 10 Crazy Signs You’re In Big Love And There’s No Going Back
Relationship Advice: 10 Crazy Signs You’re In Big Love And There’s No Going Back
Crazy, Weird Symptoms That Show You’re Head Over Heels In Love
We sing about it, watch movies about it, and think that we ourselves will always be able to keep our sanity and never fall madly in love. But love makes us feel special. It pushes us to do things we would never do under other circumstances. The main thing you need to know is that love affects you on a physical level. It makes your body release other hormones that directly affect your brain. How does it affect you? Like cocaine. With all the usual attributes: first euphoria, and then addiction. And addiction can make you do rash things. Just like drug addicts. Here are 10 crazy, weird symptoms that indicate you are head over heels in love.
1. Your hormones are out of control
When you fall in love, your cheeks start to glow every time you meet the object of your affection. Your heart starts to beat faster, your palms start to sweat, your head may start to spin faster than usual. The speed of all reactions increases. It’s all endorphin – the euphoric hormone. It makes you feel like you’re on cloud nine at the beginning of each new date with the object of your affection. And you can’t help it, even if you wanted to; love on a physical level drives you crazy.
2. You wake up and fall asleep thinking about another person.
If you love another person, thoughts about them should occupy your mind in the morning and in the evening before going to bed. The brain, on a subconscious level, explains it to itself like this: if I fell in love, are there more important things to worry about than this?
Although these thoughts are born from the subconscious and you may not notice it, your mind is literally programmed to constantly worry about the object of your love.
3. You smile when you text her/him
We’ve all seen them: people smiling while texting. A person smiling while nonverbally communicating with their partner is a sure sign that love has already happened.
It’s not just about text messages, of course. If you smile every time you think about a specific person, that’s love. Friends don’t do that. In short, if you’re happy but don’t know why, that’s it.
4. You become a little clingy.
“I wonder what she’s doing right now. I wonder if she’s watching the game. She loves soccer, which is cool for a girl. But I forget what her favorite team is… I need to ask again… Or should I ask now? I’ll use that team’s name in my messages later…
“Oh, look, a bag of chips. She likes chips. But only the cheese flavored ones…”.
When people love each other, they think a lot about each other. And they are ready to know all the smallest details in their partner. If you love someone, it will seem to you that the whole Universe revolves around him.
5. You become capable of embarrassing behavior
Have you ever heard your grandmothers tell you stories about how young men “in the old days” would throw rocks at their ladies’ windows, and when they stuck their heads out, they would start singing songs to them on the guitar? This was before YouTube. And it was a pretty complicated flash mob: you had to sing a love song alone in front of hundreds of other people.
Love makes you do things you would never do in “ordinary” life. Now your priorities change: you don’t care what other people think, as long as she’s happy.
6. You constantly step outside your comfort zone.
Love can make you go to extremes. Are you a guy? Imagine starting yoga or getting a pedicure with your girlfriend.
Are you a girl? How about going to the stadium or watching a couple of football matches in a bar?
Of course, you are unlikely to enjoy these activities as much as your partner does. However, these experiences are very important for the “gluing” of the relationship, and subconsciously you already know this.
7. You suddenly start caring more about your appearance
You used to just roll out of bed in the morning, throw on the first thing you could reach, and head out the door. That won’t work anymore: You need to look good.
You brush your hair, double-check your appearance in the mirror, remember to use deodorant, shave more carefully, and go to the gym after work instead of falling asleep with a beer in front of the TV.
8. You sing
When you fall in love, you become a truly happy and carefree person inside. You are bursting with so much emotion inside that you can no longer keep it inside. So you need to sing, you absolutely must sing, to release it.
9. You change your usual routes
After work, you no longer want to get home “on autopilot”. You call your new girlfriend and invite her to go to dinner. Or just go for a walk somewhere.
The irony of the situation is that you constantly endure inconveniences for the sake of your partner, but you are happy to do it! The extra effort does not bother you anymore, especially if you get a chance to show concern for your loved one.
10. You are blind
The old saying goes that love is blind. And it’s true. Love makes you say and do inexplicable and sometimes ridiculous things. Love blinds.
You will not notice and even forgive her for things that you do not forgive others. Because your love cannot do anything bad. There is one reason for these thoughts: love is a drug. It drives you crazy, but at the same time makes you happy. Love is an exciting feeling. When it comes, you almost always feel like you can become a victim of an overdose. But you still can’t do anything about it. Love is your worst nightmare and at the same time the best thing you can experience in life.
