We’ve been taught that romance and love should be large, grandiose, and complicated.
We expect our relationships to have many issues, as seen in the most famous love stories of all time.
What if I tell you that this is absolutely not what true love looks like?
We expect our relationships to have many twists and turns.
We are used to things being difficult.
Well, let me tell you something you should remember each time you meet someone new: Fall in love with someone who doesn’t make you think love is difficult!
For people who are right for one another finding a balance shouldn’t be so hard to achieve.
You probably feel like you’ve loved someone and they’ve loved you back many times.
Somehow though, there would always be too many issues standing in the way of you feeling like you’d found the one.
The feeling of unease with another person was an honest sign that you had not yet found your soulmate.
While things are messy and undefined with the one who’s not your forever person, when you find the one who is, everything will fall right into place.
You will never be left wondering if things between you are good, not even after fighting.
You’ll always feel assured that the person whose hand you’re holding is a perfect match for you.
You won’t be afraid to do anything or simply be yourself because they will always be there to accept and support you.
In your past relationships, you might have feared that showing your true colors and the true nature of your soul would be too much for your partner and would result in them leaving you, or no longer loving you.
Being with the right one will show you the beauty and serenity of simply knowing that no matter what you say or do, they will be there to understand you.
When the right one comes you’ll never again be left wondering if he has feelings for you.
They’ll make sure you know it every single day.
Even when they’re silent, you’ll always feel their closeness and affection.
The way their energy fulfills you will be astonishing and nothing you’ve felt before will be able to come close to this feeling.
Everything will be easy. Making plans, meeting each other’s family and friends, talking about the future and analyzing your past in ways you never knew were important.
You will be okay with them knowing every little detail of your personality and you won’t be afraid to show them everything about you.
Everything about that person will feel familiar.
You’ll feel like you have known them since the beginning of time and all that will be left to do is talk about details of your lives from before you actually met to fill the picture in and get even closer.
Remember, your souls were made to love each other. It is supposed to be easy.
Their hug will feel like home and their touch will be healing to your skin that has been hurt so many times before by the touch of the wrong one.
There won’t be tricks and there won’t be games played.
You won’t feel like your relationship could end and leave you in pain at any minute.
Any misconception you’ve ever had about staying with a partner who isn’t everything you need will disappear and you’ll know that the right person does actually fit you perfectly.
Yes, you’ll be drawn to one another the moment you meet, but that’s not the most amazing part.
What’s wonderful about being with the right one is loving each other every day with an ease you never thought possible.
Every feeling of uncertainty, fear, and discomfort you had with all the wrong ones will seem so far away now you won’t even be sure it ever happened.
The love of your life will teach you that life in a good relationship is simple and they will love you with everything they’ve got, much more than you ever believed anyone could.
They will love you exactly how you need to be loved, and for the reasons you thought no one could ever love you.