If she’s hard to love, then she’s worth it. Believe me, we’re not hard; we’re just afraid of getting burned again…
When she’s hard to love, it’s not what you think. She’s not weird, not demanding, not cunning.
She’s just been hurt before and she wants to know that you’re different. That’s why you should stay with her until she trusts you because. If she’s hard to love:
…she will always motivate you to become better.
No, it won’t make your life easier, but it will make it much better. She wants to be the best she can be, and she expects the same from her partner. She will never let you give up on your goals. She believes in you, even when it’s hard, even when you don’t believe in yourself.
…she will always take you into account.
It’s easy to back down when you don’t owe anyone anything anymore. But she will always do what’s best for you, not just to please you all the time.
…she’s been through a lot and she needs more than your mediocre efforts.
Because she’s hard to love just because she’s been hurt so many times. And you’d be careful too if you’ve been through what she’s been through. Yes, she’ll demand a lot from you, especially in the beginning, but she’s worth it.
…she will always fight for your love.
Once you win her trust, respect,, and love, you have her forever. She knows the value of a truly good man who appreciates her. That’s why she won’t leave him, no matter how hard times come.
…she is in no hurry to trust, but her trust is worth it.
Yes, it will take her time to open up to you. But honestly, that’s always the case with the worthy ones. She doesn’t let just anyone in, so if she opens up to you, you’re special to her. Realize the value of her trust.
…she will always tell the truth, even the bitter one.
She won’t sugarcoat it and tell you what you want to hear. She truly cares about you, so she’ll tell you straight. That’s the best thing anyone can do for you, even if it upsets you, and she knows it. Sometimes you might hate her for it, but in the end, you’ll realize she’s right.
She has been through a lot, which is why she is careful, but she has also learned a lot.
She is hard to get, but once you do, you will have a partner who knows exactly how to love. She has made many mistakes, but now she knows the value of a good man and how to treat him.
…she knows that anything worthwhile takes effort.
And she’s willing to put in the work for a good relationship; she just needs to be sure that you’re serious about it, too. That’s why she’s hard to love at first, but keep trying, and eventually you’ll get everything you hoped for and more.
…it is complex, but that is what makes it different from others.
She knows how to maintain her independence and how to love deeply at the same time. She is not perfect, but she knows who she is. And once you win her over, you will have the most special person in your life.
