How to make a girl horny? How to make her want to give herself fully to you without making it awkward? How to hit the right spots and improve her sex drive?
If this is what you’ve been wondering about, you’re in the right place. First of all, I’m going to tell you that women are complex beings. There are two aspects that you have to pay special attention to in order to understand how women function.
These are mental and physical. If a woman is not ready mentally, she will not be ready physically. If a woman is not ready physically, it means she’s not ready mentally. The sooner you accept this, the better.
How to make a girl horny
You have to understand that a woman’s mind is a complex machine and in order to make her horny, you have to make a tremendous effort with what you DO and not in how you LOOK. So, if you’ve forgotten to shave your beard, she won’t give a fuck if you’ve pushed the right buttons that will make her body scream with horniness. Whatever you are doing, you have to pay attention to the smallest of details.
By this, I mean the details regarding your actions. If there is one sentence that you have to memorize from all of this, it would be WOMEN REMEMBER EVERYTHING. Yes, they do.
They will remember if you downplayed them, if you didn’t support them or mistreated them in one way or another. They will even remember the date and the exact hour of a particular event.
Even if you forgot to thank them for something they’ve done for you, they will remember it. And all of this will influence their ABILITY TO BECOME HORNY.
The worst part is that you will not know that this is the case because a woman will never tell you. She will bury it in her subconscious until she has digested or deleted it. In order to avoid this, you have to maximize your current efforts so that you don’t fuck up anything. Because if you do, you’re doomed.
Here are 6 ways to overcome this mental-physical barrier and to make her horny in no time.
1. Be a gentleman
First and foremost, be a gentleman. You know that every girl wants to feel loved, appreciated and treated like a lady and if she’s not feeling appreciated SHE WILL NOT GET HORNY. I know it’s kinda absurd but it’s the truth. All of the romantic movies and old-fashioned romance have raised the standard and I’m sorry but you have to act accordingly.
In summary, in order to make a woman horny, you have to work hard for it to deserve it. When someone mentions being a gentleman, the first thing that comes to your mind is probably opening the door for her, buying her a drink or two, treating her and her friends with respect, showing up on time and so on. Yes, it’s all true.
But, there is also more to the concept of being a gentleman. Being a gentleman also means not talking about yourself too much, treating everyone with the same amount of respect ( not just her and her friends), not being bored, etc. Yes, if you’re bored, you will not make her horny. You have to make her interested in every single word that is coming out of your mouth and that way, you’ll make her want more and more…
So, be careful that you’ve set up a base for making her horny and the base consists of the three following terms: RESPECT, APPRECIATION, BEING INTERESTING. Remember them very well because you’ll need to.
2. Build up sexual tension
After you’ve made sure that you have a base, the next step is to build up the sexual tension. What is sexual tension? Sexual tension occurs when two people feel strong sexual desire but they don’t engage in sexual activities (yet). In order to make a woman horny, you HAVE TO build up the sexual tension.
There are many ways of doing so and you can use your words, physical touch and imagination. But don’t overdo it! If you overdo it, you will not build up the sexual tension, and instead aversion and you’ll most certainly not make her horny. The key is to build up the sexual tension days or hours before the expected climax.
If you’re not living together, you can always send her dirty text messages that will make her wonder about your next move. Again, don’t overdo it. Do it subtly and with caution. You don’t want her to interpret it differently from how you’ve imagined it.
If you’re living with her or seeing her regularly, try whispering in her ear, gently touching her elbow, then slowly moving to her lips and you know the rest. The thing you have to pay attention to is how you do it. Don’t act like you have a list in your head from which you’re reading your next steps. You have to do it passionately and with care and I can guarantee you that you’ll make her horny within seconds.
3. The power of teasing
You probably remember the time when you were a boy and you thought the only way to show a girl affection was by teasing her. Guess what? You were right! From an early age, men use these teasing tactics to subtly show that they are interested and to get her attention of course. The only difference is that over the years, the teasing tactics improve and if you know how to implement them, they will work like a charm on any woman.
Whether they admit it or not, women WANT TO be teased and paid attention to you. They want to feel special and to be the chosen one. In order to make her horny, you have to tease her in every single way possible.
Tease her about the food she’s just ordered with you or about her outfit, tease her by looking deep into her eyes and then looking away, touch her accidentally, etc. Whatever you choose to do, don’t do it in a way that will offend her. This takes skills but even if you’re currently not good at it, you will master it in no time. Just believe in yourself.
Teasing will make her laugh, laughing will make her relaxed, being relaxed will make her horny. So, don’t underestimate the power of teasing because it is a powerful force with which everything starts. A woman’s body is like a machine and you have to push the right buttons in order for it to start giving you what you want.
4. Turn light touching into intense touching
Remember the ASR principle—Action, Silence, Retreat. Action means to start kissing her and ‘pushing the right buttons’, Silence means to slow down and make her wait for a few seconds, after which you Retreat and wait for her to make the next move.
This way, you will not appear too pushy or too reserved. This is the perfect balance that will most surely make any girl ready for sex. Repeat the principle in two to four sessions. The first two sessions have to include light touching with your hands and light kissing. In this first phase, there’s no place for anything wild or sudden.
The key is to coordinate your every single move that will lead from one point of her body to another. Everything has to be synchronized for her body to respond. You can’t just touch her a little bit over here and a little bit over there. Nope. That way, you’ll ruin everything and you’ll have to start all over again.
With the first two sessions, you’ll be preparing her for the next two. In the last two sessions, you’ll do everything exactly the same but in a stronger and more passionate manner. Now you want to intensify everything that you’ve done so far but you don’t want her to notice the change.
The most important thing is to make the transition unnoticeable to her because if she sees that you’re changing tempo, she might get scared and this will not bring you any good.
5. Don’t underestimate the power of eye contact
Eye contact. I know you wouldn’t believe me if I told you but without occasional eye contact, all of this you’d been doing before would be in vain. Eye contact is your secret when it comes to making her horny. When you’re looking someone deep in their eyes, you are bonding with them.
You are bonding mentally and physically. Remember what I said at the beginning about mental and physical aspects regarding women? If you don’t, please read it again and you’ll realize that eye contact is the key ingredient you need to make her decide to give herself fully to you.
You can try by only stimulating her but if you choose to use your eyes as the main weapon, in most cases you will succeed in getting what you want. While you’re touching her, always look her in the eyes for a few seconds and then go back to what you were doing. There are multiple meanings behind eye contact and some of them are confidence, respect, love, deep desire and lust.
If she sees that you have no problem with making an eye contact with her, she will instantly categorize you as a man who knows what he’s doing and how to get what he wants. And that is extremely sexy. Her body will tell her that you’re the man that she has to have sex with right now!
6. Be patient but don’t be too patient
In all of these stages, you have to find the balance. You have to be patient because she will feel like you’re rushing things. But don’t be too patient either because you will kill her will to do anything with you. The key is to listen to her body and what she is saying to you.
Pay attention to her body language and gesticulations and you’ll know what you have to do next.
If she starts making weird faces like she’s not comfortable enough, you should pause and ask her about it if necessary. But don’t ask her: What’s wrong? Instead, you should ask: What’s on your mind?
If you mention the word WRONG, she will instantly start thinking that there‘s something wrong with her and if she does, you’re screwed. When you ask her what is on her mind, she will feel like you care about her and you want her to feel comfortable while doing anything with you. And when she says what’s on her mind, you can say a word or two and then continue with what you were doing.
However, if she’s giving you signals that she’s ready, do not immediately stop your actions but make a slow transition to the real deal. If your transition is too sudden, she might get un-horny and all of your efforts so far will be in vain.
Make her want every piece of you but give those pieces in a carefully devised manner.
