7 reasons why exes keep coming back.
In almost all cases, one way or another, exes reappear on the horizon over time: in a month, or even a year. What drives them in the first place, from a psychological point of view?
7 Reasons Why Exes Keep Talking to You Again
1. They are looking for a way to satisfy their ego .
He wants to make sure that you haven’t forgotten him/are still grieving for him/still love him, and thereby boost his self-esteem.
2. They want to “cry on someone’s shoulder . ”
Good emotional support is hard to find in today’s world. If you were not just good lovers but also close friends, then he is simply looking for someone he has not yet found in his new life. The problem is that after he cries to you about his problems, he then disappears again, which can hurt you emotionally. Think about whether he is worth your energy.
3. He realized that things couldn’t be any different or better, and decided to return.
When you are in a long-term relationship, with your shortcomings and problems, you can start to think that with another person everything can be better. He can leave, try with another, and, realizing that it is not better there, that all people are not ideal, he will want to come back, because you have already been tested for years and he knows you better.
4. He has a misconception about being friends with you.
The cliche “let’s stay friends” is still alive. Although it is just an excuse to break up peacefully, many still believe that it is possible. It is possible if you really had a more friendly relationship than a love relationship.
5. He changed, his life became better
He has changed, his life has become better, and he wants to know how you are doing, to compare, to brag, and again to please his ego.
6. He wants sex.
Yes, traditional sex with an ex, when you already know each other very well, but it seems like there are no obligations anymore.
7. He really wants a second chance.
Sometimes it happens that only after losing, a person understands what he has lost, and is really ready to try this time.
