Love is not a feeling.
Many people who claim to possess the feeling of love act in all kinds of unloving and destructive ways
On the other hand, a genuinely loving individual often takes constructive and loving action towards another person.
This is because they have a genuine concern for the well being of the other person in their heart.
These are people who are inherently warm-hearted, caring, loving, generous and kind.
On the other hand, there are people who have character traits like narcissism and sadism who only think about their well being.
They are cold hearted and unconcerned about the needs of others.
When entering into a relationship, we certainly don’t want to fall for a person who is cold-hearted, narcissistic, judgmental or obnoxious.
Although it takes little time to gauge someone’s personality traits and we should take our time to know someone better, we can utilize the wisdom of ancient art of Astrology to gauge particular personality traits.
A cold-hearted person is someone who is emotionally unavailable and lacks empathy. He can’t think beyond him and he is not moved by someone’s sadness or needs.
It won’t matter if you pour out your heart out to them or do any special gesture to express your love for them, they won’t be moved.
They are only interested in getting their needs met and all conversations with them would mostly revolve around themselves.
1. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is a fiery fire sign. They are very ambitious. They think big.
The only downside is that they can get too self-centered because of their ambition. They are too occupied with their own plans, targets, goals, and success.
Even when they are communicating with you, they would mostly be interested in talking about themselves and what is going on in their lives instead of being excited about your life happenings.
It will be a rare event when they will ask you a question about yourself and even if they do, it’s usually a way of getting some information.
2. CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer is a Cardinal water sign. Their ruling planet is the moon. They are highly sensitive, emotional and have extreme mood swings.
It is a little difficult to digest that the most emotional signs of the zodiac would make it to the list of cold-hearted zodiac signs.
But it is precise because of their emotional nature that they face a lot of heartbreaks in their life and they learn to harden their heart even it is only for self-preservation.
But they forget that being coldhearted and holding back their feelings is not the right way to go about for dealing with their mood swings and sensitivity.
What they need to strike is a balance between being too emotional or too cold hearted.
3. AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarius is an Air sign. They are very unconventional, rebellious, wild, go-getters and logical.
They tend toward intellectual ideas and creating new things.
However, the downside is they are not very comfortable with emotions.
It’s not that they are insensitive or don’t have any emotions but they give more preference to logic and intellect.
They will feel very uncomfortable if someone unpacks their emotional baggage n front of them and they don’t want to hear about all the painful things that are going in someone’s life.
They might just insensitively ask you to change the topic as well.
They take pride in their intellect and logic and would not share their own emotional vulnerabilities with others as well.
They would rather be aloof and solve their own problems rather than taking the chance of sharing their vulnerability with someone else.