Deep down, it would be great to have a man desire you and only you forever. Don’t you think so?
Ladies, if you think there is a magic formula that will make men fall in love with you, then you are absolutely right! It is true that there are things you can do to make men fall crazy and deeply in love with you.
Exerting effort in a relationship does not work. A better idea is to allow men to roll up their sleeves and gain your respect and affection.
Here are some helpful tips you can use to make men go crazy for you.
The fastest way to get men to like you is to gain their respect and admiration. Every woman who has her boundaries will do that.
I’ve spent years being afraid to speak up. I was thinking that men will leave me if I say something that bothered them. And I have mistakenly assumed that almost everything could upset men—a desire to be together more often, calling back or texting in a few hours but not days after, etc.
But, what happened instead? I ended up being an angry person, living in an angry environment and at the same time, I became fragile and needy.
When I tried to talk, my messages were complicated and men usually had trouble understanding me. So, the best thing is to be sincere, direct and get straight to the point.
2. Accept them for who they are.
We all want to be accepted for who we are, so if you want men to fall in love with you, accept them for who they are. Do not silently think, “I am going to help him change his hairstyle, his friends, and good God, what’s up with those clothes!”
If you cannot accept them for who they are, maybe you should move on until you find someone who really suits you without having to make any changes.
Accepting them as they are means that you accept all their habits, their virtues and flaws, dreams and their beliefs. You need to accept them as all other human beings, either good or bad, just like yourself.
3. Be happy.
Now, it may appear to be unrealistic to be bright and happy all the time. But, most of the time, men want to be with women who are confident and happy. Why? Because they fix things.
Men like to solve problems and fix things, including people, so if you are mostly sad or angry, men will probably get exhausted by fixing you. This fixing may give you the feeling that you are not good enough so you pull away from them.
Do your best to take care of yourself emotionally. Try to maintain your relationship, to improve communication with your partner, be flirty and show him that you are giving your best.
4. Let them pursue and please you.
When you go after men and you give your best in a relationship, you take away their need to do things that please you.
Men who are interested in dating you they will call you, ask you to go on a date and they will take the lead. If you let men man pursue you doesn’t mean that you are not interested. Give them the green light to continue. Believe in yourself and that you are worth pursuing.
If men find that they are totally satisfied, happy and comfortable with you, they wouldn’t refuse you. Let them please you and keep you as thrilled and happy with them as they are with you.
If you are looking at them, look in their eyes. Be sure to make eye contact for a little while, before you look away. This way you will earn your additional “love points”. From time to time be flirty with them, use some sweet pick-up lines to sweep them off their feet.
Men are usually the ones who are using those phrases but if a woman fearlessly says to them” Why can’t I see the stars tonight? Because you outshine them.”, they will be yours.
6. Learn to listen.
Women need men who will listen to their problems. But, you forget that men need to talk, too. If you want to catch their attention, listen to them. From time to time, everyone likes to feel that someone cares and listens to them.
Believe me, men love when the woman they care about cares about them too. Try to show them support by saying, „I’m proud of you for what you’re doing“ or „It sounds like you did a good job“.
Simply, you need to know that they want you to listen to them and to give them some advice regarding something. Let them speak their mind. Just remember that men won’t always talk about their feelings, but they will open up to you sooner or later.
7. Be worthy of their love.
Do you want to make a man fall in love with you? Be kind. Crush the walls you have built around your heart and let them in. Grow your self-esteem. Love yourself.
They want to fall in love with you. Let them get in their comfort zone and receive their love. If you do not feel worthy of their love, take some time to focus on the underlying cause of that feeling.
You are worthy to be loved by a wonderful man. Open up yourself and take the love in.
8. Do not force their feelings.
In reality, you cannot force men to fall in love with you. The only thing you can do is to try your best. Trying to make men fall in love with you may not happen all of a sudden.
Sometimes, these kinds of things are going to take a lot of time and a lot of patience.
After all, when it’s not forced but pure, true love exists.
If the two of you share genuine feelings, it is quite possible that love will flourish and grow into a loving relationship with mutual respect. If you do not try, you may regret it later.
The thing is, if there is a spark between the two of you, there will always be a way to get him to fall in love with you, ASAP. You need to be smart. You don’t need to be available 24/7. Show him that your life is brilliant and that he would be the luckiest man alive just to be a part of it.Be optimistic and make sure they know you are the one who’s worth losing their mind over.
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