Unicorns—mythical creatures who live under a rainbow. Ring a bell?
Isn’t this exactly the same as a nice and caring guy, not a complete douche, not an immature mama’s boy, just a regular guy searching for someone to love and treat right?
Aren’t we all in pursuit of this one of a kind guy who has, indeed, become as realistic as a unicorn?
Someone who treats us the way we deserve, someone who answers our questions directly without playing games. A man who doesn’t have a ‘bad boy’ mask on, who does whatever the hell he wants with the excuse that he lives his life on the edge.
Someone who is not a complete asshole. Someone who actually gives a damn about you.
Well ladies, your ‘unicorn boyfriend’ is the total opposite of men described above. He is a rare and precious creature who you should cherish and never let go of.
This is your ‘unicorn boyfriend’
1. He hangs on to your every word
He listens. Period. Isn’t this enough? The man is actually interested in what you’ve got to say. The man actually respects you and your opinion.
He is not tossing you aside and pretending to be the man in the relationship by trying to shut you up and pretending he really cares about what you have to say.
He doesn’t wait for you to finish talking so he can say what he wants.
2. He won’t make a fool out of you
That’s not his style and there is nothing in it for him. He doesn’t play games because he is not a boy. He is a smart and mature man who deals with problems in a grown-up way.
There is no chasing, no lying, no jealousy-provoking. There are just two people, ready to be in a relationship together, solving problems like adults.
3. His words mean something
He is not making empty promises. If he can’t keep a promise, he won’t make one. Nothing he says has a hidden meaning because he is transparent. He has nothing to hide.
His words are honest and true and most importantly, they mean a great deal. A ‘unicorn boyfriend’ will never let you down. If he promised you something, and his plans get in the way, he will cancel them all because he doesn’t want to let you down.
4. He is reasonable
He won’t provoke fights and problems. He’ll never provoke you over something insignificant. Whenever there is a problem, he will face it maturely and pull you aside to talk about it.
Making scenes and publicly shaming you just because he is angry is not in his nature. Nothing is that important that it can’t wait for you to be alone to discuss it. Then, he’ll listen to you calmly and try to solve your problem reasonably.
5. He doesn’t make excuses
You’ll never hear him making up wild stories and saying crazy ideas. When you’re dealing with a douche, there are always excuses and every time something surreal happened, and every time it wasn’t his fault.
No, there is no ‘but baby…’ in his vocabulary. He’ll never blame you for his problems and make up excuses that somehow end up meaning it was all your fault, that you should have treated him better. But since you didn’t, he didn’t have any other choice than to contact his ex. He was lonely. Boo-hoo! Your unicorn doesn’t do this.
6. He treats all women with respect
Just so you know, he is not this way only with you. He treats all women like this. So, don’t think that because he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you are the reasons why he treats you well.
He is that kind of a guy, that mythical creature who treats all women with respect, whether related or not related in any way. And yes, this man is real.
7. He makes love easy
Happiness should come naturally, you don’t have to work for it, you don’t have to try hard for it. Love is the same way, trust me. Love should be easy. Love shouldn’t be tears and not being able to sleep.
This man makes love easy. This man makes love all about warm feelings and a happy life. Just like it’s supposed to be.
8. He always makes you laugh
Maybe he isn’t even that funny but he is the funniest man alive to you. He can always put a smile on your face, no matter the situation. You can be even angry with him and he will still make you smile.
9. He encourages you
As he cares about his goals, he cares about yours, too. He wants to see you succeed, he wants to see you happy and satisfied, making your dreams come true. A man like this is rare. If you have him, hold on to him.
10. He’s positive
He is the guy you want to have by your side in all crazy, stressful situations. He never panics because he uses his reason and keeps his cool when he has to.
As long as you have him by his side, you don’t have to worry. You’re his life and he will treat you accordingly.